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		<title>Remembering Sakia Gunn (1987-2003): A Special Comment on Her Birthday</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Newark, New Jersey &#8211; On Saturday, Sakia LaTona Gunn would have been 25 years old&#8211;but instead, she was murdered by a homophobe on the make for young lesbians.  Sakia&#8217;s story never got the press attention other LGBTQ hate crimes murder victims did.  She was a young, black, poor girl from the wrong side of the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=30190&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_30194" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/sakiaweb.jpeg"><img class="size-full wp-image-30194" title="SakiaWeb" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/sakiaweb.jpeg" alt="" width="200" height="216" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sakia LaTona Gunn, murdered by a male homophobe as she defended her friends from him. She was not yet 16 when she died.</p></div>
<p>Newark, New Jersey &#8211; On Saturday, Sakia LaTona Gunn would have been 25 years old&#8211;but instead, she was murdered by a homophobe on the make for young lesbians.  Sakia&#8217;s story never got the press attention other LGBTQ hate crimes murder victims did.  She was a young, black, poor girl from the wrong side of the Hudson River.  But among those who know her story, there is great power for change still waiting to be released until justice finally comes for Sakia&#8211;and for all queer youth caught in the national nightmare of violence against young people of color that just won&#8217;t seem to go away.</p>
<p>The narrative of her last night is chilling.  Sakia and her friends returned from a great day at the Chelsea Piers over in the Big Apple.  They laughed, joked, sneaked drinks, and held each other in a blissful freedom they did not know back home.  Late, late&#8211;or early, depending on how you keep time&#8211;Sakia and her friends stood waiting for a bus to pick them up at one of the busiest bus stops in Newark, when two older, much more powerful men drove by cat-calling at them, trolling for something young and vulnerable.  They recognized that the girls were Aggressives&#8211;gender non-conforming youth who lived the hip hop life as fully as they could.  And something snapped within Richard McCullough when his blandishments were rejected by Sakia.</p>
<p>When McCullough, much larger and stronger than any of the girls he attacked, moved against her friends, Sakia defended them with her life.  McCullough stabbed her in the chest with a switchblade knife, later lamely claiming that she had &#8220;run&#8221; onto the knife he somehow was wielding in self defense.  Neither the jury nor the judge bought his story, and he was convicted of manslaughter in a plea bargain and sentenced to 20 years (rather than face a murder charge and be subject to far more prison time).</p>
<p>Sakia&#8217;s funeral was huge.  Over 2,500 people attended the wake, though it was only slightly covered in the gay media, and virtually not at all in the mainstream press&#8211;a fact that has been controversial ever since her story broke.  Racism and sexism played their part in dampening the story, as did Sakia&#8217;s self identification as a lesbian Aggressive, effectively rendering her a minority within a minority.  A courageous filmmaker, Chas Bennet Brack, worked tirelessly to bring Sakia&#8217;s story to the big screen as a documentary. <a title="Dreams Deferred: The Sakia Gunn Film Project website." href="http://www.twn.org/catalog/pages/cpage.aspx?rec=1193"> &#8221;Dreams Deferred: The Sakia Gunn Film Project&#8221;</a> became an award winner at film festivals around the country.  Sakia&#8217;s story became a subject of research, scholarship, and artistic interest, with plays, articles, and books dedicated to her memory.  Among them is the IPPY Award winning <em><a title="Unfinished Lives book site." href="http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/book/">Unfinished Lives: Reviving the Memories of LGBTQ Hate Crimes Victims </a></em><a title="Unfinished Lives book site." href="http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/book/">(Resource Publications, 2011)</a>, by Stephen V. Sprinkle, the founder and director of the Unfinished Lives Project.</p>
<p>Against the odds, Sakia Gunn intended on being a basketball star.  She found love and friendship in plenty during her woefully shortened life.  But her story persistently clamors for attention, crying out for justice for youth of color, queer people, and economically disadvantaged persons of all races and backgrounds.  Though she never wished it, she has become an ongoing inspiration&#8211;a brave young woman unafraid to be who she was in a hostile world, one who defended her friends.  What greater love can anyone have than that?</p>
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		<title>Marine Murder Anti-Gay Hate Crime, Prosecutor Says</title>
		<link>http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/2012/05/23/marine-murder-anti-gay-hate-crime-prosecutor-says/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 15:58:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Washington, D.C. &#8211; Yelling anti-gay slurs, a U.S. Marine stabbed another Marine to death after seeing him embrace his male friend outside a popular Barracks Row pub in the nation&#8217;s capital.  The Washington Post reports that Assistant U.S. Attorney Michael Liebman confirmed that his office is proceeding with anti-gay hate crime charges against Michael Poth, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=30082&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_30083" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/lcpl-philip-bushong.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-30083" title="LCpl Philip Bushong" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/lcpl-philip-bushong.jpg?w=200&h=300" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">LCpl Philip Bushong, 23, mistakenly assumed to be gay, stabbed to death for hugging a friend.</p></div>
<p>Washington, D.C. &#8211; Yelling anti-gay slurs, a U.S. Marine stabbed another Marine to death after seeing him embrace his male friend outside a popular Barracks Row pub in the nation&#8217;s capital.  <a title="Washington Post report on the fatal stabbing of a U.S. Marine in DC in what is being described as a hate crime." href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prosecutor-says-marine-fatal-stabbing-was-a-hate-crime/2012/05/16/gIQAXx9jUU_story.html">The Washington Post</a> reports that Assistant U.S. Attorney Michael Liebman confirmed that his office is proceeding with anti-gay hate crime charges against Michael Poth, 20, who stabbed Lance Corporal Philip M. Bushong, 23, on April 21.<em> “This was a hate crime,”</em> Liebman said. <em>“The victim and his friend were embracing outside.”</em>  The Post goes on to say that a DC Metro Police homicide detective reported that the crime took place because Poth believed the two men hugging were both gay.  In fact, while his friend is out and gay, Bushong was heterosexual.</p>
<p>The story confirms what hate crimes activists have seen time and again in fatalities like this: even the <em>assumption</em> that a person is gay or lesbian can be deadly.</p>
<p>Video surveillance of the area shows Bushong lifting his shirt after the attack with a startled look on his face, and then collapsing to the pavement.  His assailant had stabbed him once in the chest with a pocket knife. When Poth heard that Bushong had been transported to a hospital to deal with the stab wound, he was heard shouting, <em>&#8220;Good!  I hope he dies!&#8221;</em>  Prior to the attack, Poth was heard threatening the two men he saw socializing outside the pub, <em>“I’m going to stab someone and cut their lungs out.”</em> Poth, who had already received a &#8220;less-than-honorable discharge&#8221; from the Marines according to court testimony, had been under investigation by the Marine Corps since last November for altercations with other Marines, and for drug offenses.</p>
<p>Poth has been charged with second degree murder.  His attorney, who claims his client was defending himself from Bushong, unsuccessfully attempted to get the charge lowered to manslaughter. In the altercation, Bushong was heard calling Poth a <em>&#8220;boot,&#8221;</em> which in Marine slang suggests that Poth was a substandard soldier.</p>
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		<title>Gay Martyr for Justice Harvey Milk Celebrated Throughout America</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 08:57:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[San Francisco, California &#8211; Harvey Milk Day, May 22, celebrates the life and legacy of love of Harvey Bernard Milk, born May 22, 1930, and gunned down in his San Francisco City Hall office on November 27, 1978.  He was the first openly gay person elected to a major political office in the United States [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=30024&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/harvey-milk-may-22-stars.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-30029" title="Harvey Milk may 22 stars" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/harvey-milk-may-22-stars.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>San Francisco, California &#8211; Harvey Milk Day, May 22, celebrates the life and legacy of love of Harvey Bernard Milk, born May 22, 1930, and gunned down in his San Francisco City Hall office on November 27, 1978.  He was the first openly gay person elected to a major political office in the United States when he won a seat on the San Francisco Board of Supervisors.  His close associate,  gay activist Cleve Jones, says of his friend Harvey, <em>&#8220;He fought for gay people, against war and for workers and the poor. He stood with women, immigrants, seniors and youth. He forged coalitions that built power for ordinary men and women and moved us all forward with his humor, compassion and great love for his people.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>In today&#8217;s <a title="San Francisco Chronicle op-ed by Anne Kronenberg on the legacy of Harvey Milk." href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2012/05/21/ED1S1OJ5JU.DTL">San Francisco Chronicle</a>, Anne Kronenberg, another intimate friend of Harvey&#8217;s who managed his successful election campaign to the Board of Supervisors, reflects on Harvey&#8217;s legacy of human rights progress in the 33 years since he was assassinated.  She writes, <em>&#8220;In 1977&#8243;</em> (the year of Harvey&#8217;s election),<em> &#8220;we were taking baby steps in our fight for equal rights. In 2012, we have come a long way as the dialogue on equality is a top-of-mind issue and specific actions are reaching that goal. Harvey Milk&#8217;s life and death changed the course of history,&#8221;</em> Kronenberg went on to say. <em>&#8220;Milk&#8217;s legacy, to give people hope for a better tomorrow, is very much alive in the hearts of anyone working to achieve change. Thank you, Harvey!&#8221;</em></p>
<p>In 2010, the State of California officially set aside May 22, the anniversary of Harvey&#8217;s birth, to be an annual celebration of his memory, the story of the struggle for LGBTQ rights, and of the continuing effort to make this a better world.  His work in education (successfully opposing the infamous Briggs Initiative, also known in California as Prop 6), and in youth empowerment is now being championed by the <a title="Harvey B. Milk Foundation website." href="http://milkfoundation.org/">Harvey B. Milk Foundation</a>, founded by Harvey&#8217;s nephew Stuart Milk and his friend Anne Kronenberg.  To learn more about Harvey&#8217;s life, times, assassination and witness for justice, see the Academy Award winning films <a title="TImes of Harvey Milk IMDb link." href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088275/">The Times of Harvey Milk (1984)</a> and <a title="Milk film site." href="http://www.filminfocus.com/focusfeatures/film/milk/">Milk (2009)</a>. In book form, the definitive work is still Randy Shilts&#8217;s <a title="The Mayor of Castro Street by Randy Shilts (Review)." href="http://newsosaur.blogspot.com/2008/12/randy-shilts-conscience-of-castro.html">The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk (St. Martins Griffin, 2008)</a>.</p>
<p>The Unfinished Lives Project Team joins grateful Americans from every walk of life in the celebration of Harvey Milk, hate crimes murder victim, gay rights pioneer, and friend of all marginalized people.  Though he died, yet he lives in our hearts and minds, and in the living shrine of liberty made up of the lived experiences of increasing millions of out and proud LGBTQ people.  Happy Birthday, Harvey!</p>
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		<title>Another Gay Minnesota Teen Crushed By Weight of Homophobic Bullying</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rochester, Minnesota &#8211; A 17-year-old openly gay teen succumbed to overwhelming bullying, taking his own life this past Sunday.  Jay&#8217;Cory Jones jumped to his death into traffic from a pedestrian bridge near Century High School, according to police reports.  According to his father, Jones was beaten down by the incessant school bullying he endured for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=29616&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Rochester, Minnesota &#8211; A 17-year-old openly gay teen succumbed to overwhelming bullying, taking his own life this past Sunday.  Jay&#8217;Cory Jones jumped to his death into traffic from a pedestrian bridge near Century High School, according to police reports.  According to his father, Jones was beaten down by the incessant school bullying he endured for being open and vocal about his sexual orientation.  His father, JayBocka Strader, told the <a title="Postbulletin.com story on suicide of Jay'Cory Jones, 17, gay teen from Rochester, MN." href="http://www.postbulletin.com/news/stories/display.php?id=1496001">PostBulletin.com</a>, <em>&#8220;He said all of his life they always picked on him. He&#8217;d still try to keep his head up at school, but then he&#8217;d come home and be really sad about it.&#8221;</em>  Mr. Strader went on to say that his son was depressed because other boys wouldn&#8217;t accept him for who he was.</p>
<p>Jones knew of his sexual orientation since he was a little boy.  He took pride in who he was, and declared on his Facebook page that he was <em>&#8220;Gay &amp; Proud.&#8221;</em>  A member of the Century Gay Straight Alliance, he sought help with his feelings from the Gay and Lesbian Youth Services in Rochester where he attended weekly meetings.  In the end, the pressure on him from his peers was just too much to bear.</p>
<p><a title="ABC 6 News report on the suicide of openly gay teen Jay'Cory Jones, 17, of Rochester, Minnesota." href="http://kaaltv.com/article/stories/S2613187.shtml?cat=10219">ABC 6 News</a> reports that Jones&#8217;s high school friends confirm that the abuse he suffered from bullies was a large factor in his death. <em> &#8221;You could tell it upset him because like he didn&#8217;t understand why people couldn&#8217;t accept him for who he was,&#8221;</em> his friend Rachel said. <em>&#8220;It just sucks that we had to lose somebody because of people&#8217;s words, and they didn&#8217;t realize that words hurt more than anything else.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Communities across Minnesota, even the notorious Anoka-Hennepin School District in suburban Minneapolis, as well as towns and cities around the nation are attempting to staunch the numbers of gay and lesbian teens who take their lives because of homophobic bullying.  There is help available, like the Gay and Lesbian Youth Services of Rochester, and the nationally based <a title="Trevor Project website." href="http://www.thetrevorproject.org/">Trevor Helpline</a>, but it appears to be too little too late for so many, like Jay&#8217;Cory.</p>
<p>As <a title="EDGE on the net story on the bullycide of 17 year old gay teen, Jay'Cory Jones in Rochester, MN." href="http://www.edgeonthenet.com/news/national//132917/gay_minn_teen_commits_suicide_after_relentless_bullying">EDGE On The Net</a> reports, his dad said, <em>&#8220;Up until his death, he took a stand. He was like, ’Whatever happens, happens &#8212; I’m just going to take a stand.’ And he started to take a stand.&#8221;</em>  The homophobia in Century High School was just too heavy to win against. To honor Jay&#8217;Cory, Mr. Strader requests that people wear pink. <em> &#8221;I told him he looked really good in pink,&#8221;</em> he said.</p>
<p><strong><em>The Trevor Project 24-hour Lifeline number is 866-488-7386.  </em></strong>For God&#8217;s sake, use it!</p>
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		<title>Gay Hate Crimes Book Receives National Independent Publishers Award</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2012 05:19:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[New York, New York - Unfinished Lives: Reviving the Memories of LGBTQ Hate Crimes Victims by Dr. Stephen V. Sprinkle has been awarded the national Silver Medal from the Independent Book Awards for outstanding excellence in Gay/Lesbian Non-Fiction.  The IPPY Awards, created 16 years ago by the Jenkins Group, honors independently published books throughout the United [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=28942&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/ippy_silvermedal_lr.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-28944" title="ippy_silvermedal_LR" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/ippy_silvermedal_lr.jpg?w=300&h=300" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>New York, New York - <a title="Unfinished Lives book site." href="http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/book/"><em>Unfinished Lives: Reviving the Memories of LGBTQ Hate Crimes Victims</em></a> by Dr. Stephen V. Sprinkle has been awarded <a title="IPPY Award notification of Silver Medal for Unfinished Lives by Stephen V. Sprinkle" href="http://www.independentpublisher.com/article.php?page=1534">the national Silver Medal</a> from the Independent Book Awards for outstanding excellence in Gay/Lesbian Non-Fiction.  <a title="IPPY Awards history page." href="http://www.independentpublisher.com/article.php?page=1423">The IPPY Awards</a>, created 16 years ago by the Jenkins Group, honors independently published books throughout the United States. Jim Barnes, Awards Director of the IPPYs for the past 14 years, made the announcement of Dr. Sprinkle&#8217;s groundbreaking book on May 2. <a title="Dallas Voice story on 2012 IPPY Award to Stephen V. Sprinkle for his book, Unfinished Lives." href="http://www.dallasvoice.com/sprinkle-wins-ippy-award-10108524.html">For Dallas Voice coverage of the award by David Taffet, click here.</a></p>
<p><em>Unfinished Lives</em> is Dr. Sprinkle&#8217;s labor of love, telling the stories of 14 LGBTQ hate crimes murder victims throughout the U.S., representative of over 13,000 women, men, and youths who have lost their lives to unreasoning hatred since 1980.  It took four-and-a-half years to research and write the book. Dr. Sprinkle traveled throughout the country, meeting family members, law enforcement officers, journalists, brokenhearted lovers, and friends who told the stories of their loved ones so that their memories would not be lost. <em>&#8220;I set out to change the conversation on hate crimes in this country,&#8221;</em> Dr. Sprinkle said, <em>&#8220;to put a human face on the outrage of homophobia and transphobia robbing us of so many so brutally.&#8221;</em>  In regard to the IPPY Award Silver Medal, he said, <em>&#8220;I am grateful to the judges and to my publisher, Wipf and Stock&#8211;but most of all to the women related to the victims who have become my teachers during the struggle to write this book.  These mothers, sisters and aunts became courageous human rights advocates by tragic happenstance.  In their names I gratefully accept this award.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Known as the <em>&#8220;Oscars of Independent Publishing,&#8221;</em> the IPPY Awards were launched in 1996 as <em>“the first unaffiliated book awards program open exclusively to independents.”</em>  Awards Director Barnes says: <em>&#8220;Even today, authors choose to publish independently to break free of the rules and constraints of conglomerate publishing, and this rebellious attitude still influences the Awards’ mission today, &#8216;To reward those who exhibit the courage, innovation, and creativity to bring about change in the world of publishing.&#8217;”</em> Over 4,000 titles compete for the honors each year in over 72 categories.  Gold, Silver, and Bronze medals are awarded in each category. <em>&#8220;As far as we know,&#8221;</em> Barnes went on to say, <em>&#8220;it’s the largest book awards contest in the world.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Award winners gather this year on June 4 for the awards ceremony at <a title="Providence NYC website." href="http://www.metronomenyc.com/our-venues/providence-nyc">Providence NYC</a>, in the Midtown West area of New York City, a venue where the Rolling Stones, Stevie Wonder, Frank Sinatra, Barbara Streisand, Jimi Hendrix, and John Lennon recorded their music. The IPPYs are given in conjunction with the mammoth annual <a title="Book Expo America website." href="http://www.bookexpoamerica.com/">BookExpo America</a> convention to insure the greatest exposure possible for award winners.</p>
<p><em>Unfinished Lives</em> was published in January 2011 by <a title="Resource Publications Unfinished Lives page." href="https://wipfandstock.com/store/Unfinished_Lives_Reviving_the_Memories_of_LGBTQ_Hate_Crimes_Victims">Resource Publications</a>, an imprint of Wipf and Stock Publishers of Eugene, Oregon. Stephen V. Sprinkle is Professor of Practical Theology and Director of Field Education and Supervised Ministry at <a title="Brite website." href="http://www.brite.tcu.edu/">Brite Divinity School</a>, on the campus of Texas Christian University in Fort Worth, Texas.  He also serves as Theologian in Residence of <a title="Cathedral of Hope website." href="https://www2.cathedralofhope.com/">Cathedral of Hope</a> (United Church of Christ) in Dallas, Texas, the largest congregation in the world with a predominant outreach to the LGBTQ community.</p>
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		<title>The Outrage of Pulpit Homophobia: A Special Comment By a Baptist</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fayetteville, North Carolina &#8211; Pastor Sean Harris did not make news around the blogosphere because he preaches against gay people. He should have, of course, and been opposed for it. But homophobic messages from American pulpits are given passes every Sunday of the world. Because he got caught fanning the flames of homophobic bullying against [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=28906&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Fayetteville, North Carolina &#8211; Pastor Sean Harris did not make news around the blogosphere because he preaches against gay people. He should have, of course, and been opposed for it. But homophobic messages from American pulpits are given passes every Sunday of the world. Because he got caught fanning the flames of homophobic bullying against children, however, he has become an infamous example of what can no longer be tolerated in any pulpit anywhere. In a sermon at Berean Baptist Church in Fayetteville, home to Fort Bragg, Pastor Harris shouted that any <em>&#8220;limp-wristed&#8221;</em> boy acting like a girl should be punished with physical violence.  His wrist should be <em>&#8220;cracked&#8221;</em> and he should receive the blows of his father&#8217;s fists, the preacher said with great enthusiasm.  Girls were not left out of his sights, either.  Pastor Harris went on the say that girls could <em>&#8220;play sports,&#8221;</em> but they were supposed to conform to his notions of what a girl looked like, dressed like, acted like, and <em>&#8220;smelled like.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;Smelled like&#8221;?</em></strong> Pastor Harris&#8217;s sermon does not pass the &#8220;smell test.&#8221;  Love of God and neighbor are apparently foreign to him, and the shouts of affirmation he received as he preached his homophobic message had nothing to do with the Good News. His <a title="Audio of Sean Harris's sermon embedded in The Advocate report on his permission to bully children." href="http://www.advocate.com/society/religion/2012/05/01/north-carolina-pastor-advocates-punching-gay-acting-children">message of harsh punishment</a> smells like something dying, not something being born again. Sadly, there are too many like him in the pulpits of this nation, so-called men of God who give God, Christ, and the Holy Spirit a bad name.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t take a theologian to know what Pastor Harris is up to.  He is trying to say that God hates gay people, even those in the larval stage. He is a strong supporter of North Carolina&#8217;s proposed anti-difference amendment to the state constitution, <a title="Frequently asked questions on Amendment One." href="http://equalitync.org/amendment">Amendment One</a>, which will be voted on shortly in the Old North State.  Same-sex marriage is already illegal in North Carolina, but pulpit politicians like Harris want to inscribe discrimination in the constitution of the only southern state in the country that has had the good sense not to do so yet.  So, Pastor Harris feels free to advocate violence against children who are stereotypically suspected of being gay.</p>
<p>Pastor Harris is abusing his pulpit in the name of a homophobia embedded within him, and which he reads back into scripture and Christian faith&#8211;a practice that is controversial at the very least, and has been repeatedly shown to be false by ministers, scripture scholars, and church leaders for decades.  It is the oldest ministerial slight-of-hand in the Christian faith: find an outcast group it seems safe to demean, then proof text a Bible verse to support your bias (but be sure to wash your hands of the violence your words inspire and the attacks people you instigate carry out!).  Jews, Blacks, women, and now gay people and their supporters in North Carolina know all about it.  And it is no longer tolerable or acceptable for other Christians to put up with silently any longer.  Where is the outcry from clergy?  From church members who know better? Where is the demand that religion based bigotry must stop?  Where are the voices of school administrators, teachers, and school board members who know full well that attitudes and advocacy like Harris&#8217;s lead to children being bullied to death in classrooms and school playgrounds?</p>
<p>Pastor Harris now says he wants to &#8220;retract&#8221; his advice about parental violence against their children.  But he defiantly affirms that he still hates sinners like gay people, calling them &#8220;abominations,&#8221; homophobic biblicism&#8217;s shorthand for the worst curse imaginable.  I would hope he changes his mind and heart about his fellow human beings, the ones God loves just as much as God loves his Berean Baptist flock.  But I am not holding my breath until he does.  I have worked educating ministerial students, speaking on panels in schools and universities, and writing on the role religion based homophobia plays in hate crimes for decades, and these two things I have learned about &#8220;true believers&#8221; like this pulpit abuser: <em>You cannot take out of a person by rationality what rationality did not put into him. Neither can appeals to humanity change a heart of stone.</em></p>
<p>Though I suspect he would argue with me until Judgement Day, I know that every child is precious in the sight of God&#8211;even those who will one day identify as gay, lesbian, transgender, or something else.  God doesn&#8217;t make junk.  And, contrary to the homophobia he was taught somewhere and seems to have swallowed whole, being gay, just like being straight, is a gift from God, too.</p>
<p>One other thing is sure: what Pastor Harris is preaching about the gender identity and expression of children did not come from God.</p>
<p>Here is a scripture that came to me while I was listening to Pastor Harris&#8217;s diatribe in the guise of a sermon: John 11:35 &#8211; <em><strong>&#8220;Jesus wept.&#8221;  </strong></em><strong></strong>~ Rev. Dr. Stephen V. Sprinkle, Baptist minister and professor of Practical Theology in Fort Worth, Texas</p>
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		<title>Gay Utah Teen Bullied To Death: Emergency Community Summit Called</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 07:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ogden, Utah &#8211; Last Monday, another gay teenager from Utah took his life in response to intolerable bullying because of his sexual orientation.  Q Salt Lake reports that Jack Reese, 18, of Mountain Green is the latest casualty in the war on gay teenagers taking place in the nation&#8217;s schools.  With heartbreaking coincidence, Reese&#8217;s boyfriend, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=28682&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Ogden, Utah &#8211; Last Monday, another gay teenager from Utah took his life in response to intolerable bullying because of his sexual orientation.  <a title="Q Salt Lake report on suicide of Jack Reese, 18, gay teen of Mountain Green, Utah." href="http://qsaltlake.com/2012/04/27/after-teens-suicide-ogden-to-hold-community-meeting-candlelight-vigil/comment-page-1/">Q Salt Lake</a> reports that Jack Reese, 18, of Mountain Green is the latest casualty in the war on gay teenagers taking place in the nation&#8217;s schools.  With heartbreaking coincidence, Reese&#8217;s boyfriend, Alex Smith, spoke on Reese&#8217;s experiences with school bullying to a community event focused on the problem of bullying&#8211;without the knowledge that the love of his life had already taken his own life earlier that day. Details of Reese&#8217;s death have not been released to the public at this time.</p>
<p>According to<a title="OUTreach report on the incidence of teen youth suicides among gays in Utah." href="http://ogdenoutreach.org/index.php/from-a-mom-plea-to-parents"> Ogden OUTreach</a>, a local LGBT youth service organization, the rate of gay teen suicide in Utah is fully 8 times the national average.  A North Utah mother of a gay son appeals to parents in the community the community in the wake of Reese&#8217;s bullycide to wake up and take action against the epidemic of suicide sweeping so many queer youth away.  Allison Black writes to her fellow parents, in part: <em>&#8220;Our local community and churches do not always make it easy to openly accept our LGBT (lesbian, gay, transgender, and bi-sexual) friends, family members, and loved ones.  The bullying and suicides need to stop. Parents please do not let outside influences tell you that your gay child is evil or broken.  Follow your heart.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>The Rev. Marian Edmonds, director of Ogden OUTreach, says that in an &#8220;off-the-record&#8221; comment by a local official, a gay teen takes his or her life <strong>at the rate of once a week</strong>, though it does not get reported that way to the press.  In a statement to the media, Edmonds said: <em>“The youth I work with all know either a victim of bullying, the loss of a friend to suicide, and most often, both. These youth are bright, creative and loving, yet too often face daily abuse from rejecting families, bullies at school and the loss of their church family. It is time for local schools to incorporate proven techniques for eliminating bullying and homophobia, for churches to preach love and acceptance, and for parents and families to love and accept their children. Each loss of life is a loss for all of us, and it must stop now.”</em></p>
<p>An emergency community summit aimed at stopping the spread of gay teen suicides due to bullying has been called in Ogden for May 1.  Speakers will include parents from<a title="Ogden, Utah, PFLAG Chapter website." href="http://www.ogdenpflag.org/"> Ogden PFLAG</a>, local opinion leaders, faith leaders, and active members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, the predominant religious influence throughout the area.  At Alex Smith&#8217;s request, a candlelight vigil will be held at the end of the summit in memory of Reese. Rev. Edmonds decries the situation that is robbing Ogden and North Utah of its young people.  <em>&#8220;Each loss of life is a loss for all of us, and it must stop now,&#8221;</em> she said. Liz Owen, director of PFLAG national, summed up the challenge facing us all: <em>&#8220;Sadly, the death of Jack Reese is a reminder that there is still much work to be done.&#8221;</em></p>
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		<title>Gay Hate Crimes Victim Ryan Keith Skipper Lives On: A Special Comment</title>
		<link>http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/2012/04/28/gay-hate-crimes-victim-ryan-keith-skipper-lives-on-a-special-comment/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 20:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wahneta, Florida &#8211; Today would have been Ryan Keith Skipper&#8217;s 31st birthday, had he not died at the hands of two reckless, homophobic men in Central Florida five years ago.  But Ryan lives on in the hearts and minds of his family, his friends, and countless supporters of human rights who commemorate his life and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=28645&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_28648" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 180px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/170px-ryanskipper.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-28648" title="170px-Ryanskipper" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/170px-ryanskipper.jpg" alt="" width="170" height="296" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Ryan Keith Skipper (April 28, 1981 - March 14, 2007)</p></div>
<p>Wahneta, Florida &#8211; Today would have been Ryan Keith Skipper&#8217;s 31st birthday, had he not died at the hands of two reckless, homophobic men in Central Florida five years ago.  But Ryan lives on in the hearts and minds of his family, his friends, and countless supporters of human rights who commemorate his life and the lives of other hate crimes murder victims around the nation.</p>
<p>Ryan&#8217;s murderers are both sentenced to life in prison for their crimes.  William David &#8220;Bill-Bill&#8221; Brown Jr. and Joseph &#8220;Smiley&#8221; Bearden killed Ryan on the night of March 14, 2007 in cold blood, stole his car, and vainly attempted to fence it before desperately trying to burn it up in order to destroy evidence of the murder.  The Sheriff of Polk County, Grady Judd, capitalized on Ryan&#8217;s murder politically, and crassly blamed Ryan for his own death.  Sheriff Judd, as of this writing, still holds office, though every one of his innuendoes and allegations concerning Ryan have been categorically disproved.</p>
<p>In the five years since Ryan&#8217;s untimely death, his parents, Pat and Lynn Mulder, his brother Damien, and his host of friends have gotten on with their lives, dealing with their grief the best they can.  His family has become one of the foremost voices for justice for hate crimes victims in the nation.  A major documentary film, <a title="Ryan Skipper documentary film site." href="http://www.ryanskipperdocumentary.com/reviews.html">&#8220;Accessory to Murder: Our Culture&#8217;s Complicity in the Death of Ryan Skipper,&#8221;</a> directed by Vicki Nantz, a former news director for Orlando&#8217;s WESH-TV, continues to open hearts and minds to the cause of human equality throughout Florida and beyond.  Damien, Ryan&#8217;s older brother, has married and moved away from Florida.  He and his wife welcomed a beautiful baby girl, Ryan, into the world this past year, so in an act of life in defiance of death, another Ryan Skipper lives and thrives in her uncle&#8217;s memory.</p>
<p>The Unfinished Lives Project was inspired by the life story of Ryan Skipper: his extraordinary capacity for love and friendship, his ability to make people feel appreciated and important, and his unconquerable spirit of life.  His story occupies a chapter in the recent book, <a title="Unfinished Lives book link." href="http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/book/">Unfinished Lives: Reviving the Memories of LGBTQ Hate Crimes Victims</a> (Resource Publications, 2011), entitled &#8220;Keeper of Hearts.&#8221;</p>
<p>Every time Ryan is remembered and his story is retold, the intentions of his killers and their accomplices in today&#8217;s culture and politics are thwarted.  Ryan is precious in our memory on his birthday.  Our fight for equality and justice continues because Ryan lives on in our hearts.</p>
<br /> Tagged: <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/anti-lgbt-hate-crime-murder/'>anti-LGBT hate crime murder</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/blame-the-victim/'>Blame the victim</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/florida/'>Florida</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/gay-men/'>gay men</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/glbtq/'>GLBTQ</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/hate-crimes/'>Hate Crimes</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/heterosexism-and-homophobia/'>Heterosexism and homophobia</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/lgbtq/'>LGBTQ</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/remembrances/'>Remembrances</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/slashing-attacks/'>Slashing attacks</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/social-justice-advocacy/'>Social Justice Advocacy</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/special-comment/'>Special Comment</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/unfinished-lives-book/'>Unfinished Lives book</a>, <a href='http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/tag/unfinished-lives-project/'>Unfinished Lives Project</a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/" /></a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/godelicious/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/delicious/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/" /></a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gofacebook/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/facebook/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/" /></a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gotwitter/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/twitter/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/" /></a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gostumble/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/stumble/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/" /></a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/godigg/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/digg/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/" /></a> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/goreddit/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/reddit/unfinishedlives.wordpress.com/28645/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=28645&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Lesbians Thrown Out of Texas Bar, Then Beaten in Possible Hate Crime</title>
		<link>http://unfinishedlivesblog.com/2012/04/24/lesbians-thrown-out-of-texas-bar-then-beaten-in-possible-hate-crime/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 18:58:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Weir, Texas &#8211; A group of lesbians say that they were thrown out of a local bar and then held and beaten because of their sexual orientation. Weir, Texas is a town of 500+ souls in Northeast Williamson County, east of Georgetown and north of Austin. Julie Ward, her sister, sister-in-law, and another friend stopped [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=28121&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_28126" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/julieward.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-28126" title="JulieWard" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/julieward.jpg?w=300&h=217" alt="" width="300" height="217" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Julie Ward says she and her friends were held and beaten for being lesbians (KVUE News image)</p></div>
<p>Weir, Texas &#8211; A group of lesbians say that they were thrown out of a local bar and then held and beaten because of their sexual orientation. Weir, Texas is a town of 500+ souls in Northeast Williamson County, east of Georgetown and north of Austin. Julie Ward, her sister, sister-in-law, and another friend stopped in the Bunkhouse Bar, the only place to get an adult drink in the town, late on Sunday, according to the <a title="Dallas Voice report on possible hate crime beating of lesbians in NE Williamson County, TX, Sunday morning." href="http://www.dallasvoice.com/lesbian-beaten-bar-north-austin-10107483.html">Dallas Voice</a>. Ward, one of the victims in the crime, said to <a title="KVUE News report on the beating on lesbians at a Weir, Texas bar in a possible hate crime on Sunday." href="http://www.kvue.com/news/local/Williamson-County-woman-claims-she-and-friends-beat-up-because-theyre-gay-148612225.html">KVUE News</a> that she and her party got beers and started playing pool.  A female employee of the Bunkhouse approached them to tell them the bar <em>&#8220;didn&#8217;t serve [their] type,&#8221;</em> that they were not welcome there, and to see them out the door. When the group of women moved outside, patrons of the bar followed them into the parking lot, seized them, and commenced to beat them while hurling anti-lesbian slurs at them.</p>
<p>Ward says that women held them while the men from the bar beat them.  She told KVUE: <em>“As we came outside into the parking lot, we were followed by the patrons of the bar and our arms were held back by women and we were beaten by men. A man told me if I was going to look like a man, I better be able to take a hit like a man, and I was punched in the face at that moment and hit the ground.”</em> Ward continued: <em>“We&#8217;re just people too. We&#8217;re normal people that wanted to be in a bar. We wanted to spend our money there. We wanted to play pool there and because of our sexuality we weren&#8217;t welcome.”</em>  Ward, her friend, and her sister suffered multiple scrapes, bruises, and cuts on their arms and legs from the beating.</p>
<p>A bar spokeswoman says that <em>&#8220;sexual preference&#8221;</em> didn&#8217;t cause the attack.  In her version of the incident, the lesbians were <em>&#8220;rough housing,&#8221;</em> and were asked to leave.  No explanation was given of why patrons of the bar followed the victims outside, held and beat them. Weir residents are making the customary defense of their hometown, saying that things like a lesbian beat-down don&#8217;t occur in their close knit community.</p>
<p>The Williamson County Sheriff&#8217;s Department says that the investigation is ongoing, and if a hate crime was perpetrated, then the case will be treated as a bias crime at that time. No arrests in the beating have yet been announced.</p>
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		<title>Marine Murdered in Possible Anti-Gay Hate Crime</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 06:13:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Washington, D.C. &#8211; A U.S. Marine was attacked and stabbed through the heart by a fellow Marine who allegedly ignited the fight by calling him an anti-gay slur.  Philip Bushong, 23, was fatally stabbed with a pocket knife on Saturday in the Barracks Row section of D.C. by 20-year-old Michael Poth, according to reports in WTNH [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=28066&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Washington, D.C. &#8211; A U.S. Marine was attacked and stabbed through the heart by a fellow Marine who allegedly ignited the fight by calling him an anti-gay slur.  Philip Bushong, 23, was fatally stabbed with a pocket knife on Saturday in the Barracks Row section of D.C. by 20-year-old Michael Poth, according to reports in <a title="Marine murder reported in WTNH News blog in DC's Barracks Row on Saturday." href="http://www.wtnh.com/dpp/news/hartford_cty/conn-native-killed-by-marine-in-dc">WTNH News</a>. Gravely wounded, Bushong was rushed to a nearby hospital where he died about an hour later. The stabbing took place near the Marine Barracks and the home of the U.S. Marines Commandant&#8211;a bustling section of the U.S. Capitol with shops, restaurants, and residences that is normally thought to be safe because of its proximity to the military barracks.</p>
<p>Witnesses told DC police that Poth called Bushong the homophobic slur as the two Marines passed each other on the sidewalk at about 2:40 a.m., according to the <a title="Washington Post story on the stabbing death of a Marine in the Barracks Row neighborhood of D.C. on Saturday." href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/marine-kills-another-marine-near-dc-barracks-police-say/2012/04/21/gIQAcfuLYT_story.html">Washington Post</a>.  Bushong, who apparently had never met Poth, took exception to the slur, and the fight erupted in front of a sporting goods store. The DC Metro Police are taking the lead on the investigation of Bushong&#8217;s murder, assisted by the Naval Crime Investigative Service.  Poth was charged Monday with second degree murder, according to <a title="WJLA ABC News 7 story on the arraignment of Michael Poth for the murder of fellow Marine Philip Bushong in DC on Saturday." href="http://www.wjla.com/articles/2012/04/man-killed-in-700-block-of-8th-street-se-75155.html">WJLA News 7</a>. Bail was denied at the request of representatives of the Marine Corps, and Poth will go to court the next time on May 15. Defense attorneys allege self-defense on their client&#8217;s part. When Poth was arrested by Marine guards and told that Bushong was on his way to the hospital, he allegedly told them, <em>&#8220;Good! I hope he dies!&#8221;</em> Carolyn Eaves, a worker a block away from the scene of the crime, told News 7, <em>&#8220;Sad. Two families&#8230; now destroyed &#8220;We have to learn not to call people names, you know. Got to be on our Ps and Qs all the time. Sad.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Because of the report of the homophobic slur, hate crimes protocols are being observed in the investigation, and the Gay and Lesbian Task Force of the Metro Police have been brought in. <a title="Advocate story on the murder of a Marine in D.C Saturday ignited by a homophobic slur." href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2012/04/16/Police_Suspect_in_Marines_Death_Used_Antigay_Slur/"> The Advocate</a> reports that <a title="OutServe website." href="http://outserve.org/">OutServe</a>, the first openly gay and lesbian active duty military advocacy organization in the nation, issued a statement on the killing over the weekend.  In part, the statement reads: <em>“We are troubled by the specter that this might have been a hate crime; if so, we anticipate the authorities will pursue it to the fullest extent of the law. This is particularly upsetting since, overall, gay and lesbian Marines have been accepted and treated equally in the force since repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.&#8217; We look forward to the results of a swift and thorough investigation of this tragic incident.” </em></p>
<p>Bushong, a Marine since 2007, was stationed at Camp Lejeune in North Carolina.  A native of Enfield, Connecticut, he was described by friends and fellow Marines as a fun-loving person who enjoyed his life. Funeral arrangements in Connecticut have not been released to the public at the time of this report.</p>
<p>Hate speech has the capacity to inflame young men, in particular. What prompted one Marine to sling an anti-gay epithet at the other is not known, but neither young man is believed to be gay. The language of violence attached to homophobia is still strong enough to infuriate people like no other speech in our time, and turn otherwise sensible people into combatants, as in this awful case in the nation&#8217;s capitol. The Marines have traditionally been felt to have a higher degree of homophobia than the other armed forces, but recent accounts seemed to indicate that the repeal of Don&#8217;t Ask, Don&#8217;t Tell was going well in the Corps. It seems there is much work left to do, however, until young men like these no longer feel that accusations of homosexuality are intolerable to their manhood.</p>
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		<title>East Texas Gay Basher Gets 10 Years for Savage Attack</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 07:24:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Paris, Texas &#8211; The second of three defendants in the Reno, Texas homophobic hate crime attack on a gay man received a 10 year sentence after pleading no contest to the charges against him. Mickey Jo Smith, 25, took his medicine for participating in the savage beating and burning of 28-year-old Burke Burnett that took [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=27528&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Paris, Texas &#8211; The second of three defendants in the Reno, Texas homophobic hate crime attack on a gay man received a 10 year sentence after pleading no contest to the charges against him. Mickey Jo Smith, 25, took his medicine for participating in the savage beating and burning of 28-year-old Burke Burnett that took place after an October 30, 2011 Halloween gathering gone seriously wrong.  Smith offered no defense Tuesday against charges of aggravated assault with a deadly weapon, plus a hate crime enhancement, as reported in the <a title="Dallas Voice story on the conviction of Mickey Jo Smith for gay bashing Burke Burnett, a gay man, in Reno, Texas last year." href="http://www.dallasvoice.com/2nd-suspect-sentenced-reno-hate-crime-10107017.html">Dallas Voice</a>.</p>
<p>Burnett, who suffered multiple bruises, stab wounds, and cuts from a broken beer bottle, plus second degree burns from being bodily dumped in a blazing trash barrel, offered this statement on Wednesday to the Voice: <em>“I am grateful and comforted to hear of the sentencing of Micky Joe Smith. So many people who have endured similar experiences of hate crimes have not been afforded the opportunity to see justice served. The gay community in North Texas is a safer place today.”</em></p>
<p>In February, James Mitchell Laster, 32, pled no contest, and was sentenced to eight years in prison for his part in the hate crime.  The third suspect in the attack, Daniel Shawn Martin, 33, who like the other defendants yelled homophobic slurs at his gay victim while prosecuting his assault, was scheduled to face trial on Wednesday, but according to court officials, his day in court has been postponed.</p>
<p>Texas prosecutors have been reluctant to invoke the state&#8217;s hate crimes law in cases involving gay or lesbian victims.  The fact that both men convicted in this brutal example of homophobia have been sentenced with a hate crimes enhancement is significant&#8211;perhaps indicating that the LGBTQ community&#8217;s protests have been heard by state and local officials.</p>
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		<title>Gay Iowa Teen Driven to Suicide by Bullying</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Primghar/Paullina, Iowa &#8211; An out gay teen took his life in Northwest Iowa on Saturday night because bullying in his high school had become intolerable for him.  Kenneth Weishuhn was just 14 years old.  After coming out as gay barely a month ago, the torrent of anti-gay harassment overwhelmed his gentle spirit. KTIV News reports [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=27483&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_27489" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 260px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/kenneth-weishuhn.jpeg"><img class="size-full wp-image-27489" title="Kenneth Weishuhn" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/kenneth-weishuhn.jpeg" alt="" width="250" height="250" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Kenneth Weishuhn, 14, bullied to death by his schoolmates for being gay.</p></div>
<p>Primghar/Paullina, Iowa &#8211; An out gay teen took his life in Northwest Iowa on Saturday night because bullying in his high school had become intolerable for him.  Kenneth Weishuhn was just 14 years old.  After coming out as gay barely a month ago, the torrent of anti-gay harassment overwhelmed his gentle spirit. <a title="KTIV News report on suicide of Kenneth Weihshuhn." href="http://www.ktiv.com/story/17473534/family-says">KTIV News</a> reports that he had not anticipated how hated he would become after revealing his sexual orientation to his friends.  His sister Kayla told reporters that her brother was constantly harassed and bullied by boys in her class at South O&#8217;Brien High School where Kenneth was a freshman. <em>&#8220;People that were originally his friends, they kind of turned on him,&#8221;</em> she said.  Bullies set up an anti-gay Facebook page targeting Kenneth.  Then, Kenneth started receiving death threats on his phone.  <em>&#8220;A lot of people, they either joined in or they were too scared to say anything,&#8221;</em> Kayla concluded.</p>
<p>His mother Jeannie Chambers asked him about the menacing phone calls, but believed Kenneth was handling them well enough. Still, there were warning signs that the pressure was getting to much for the 14-year-old. <a title="EDGE on the net report on the suicide of Kenneth Weishuhn." href="http://www.edgeonthenet.com/news/national//132077/gay_iowa_teen_commits_suicide_over_alleged_bullying">EDGE On the Net</a> reports that Kenneth told his mother <em>&#8220;Mom, you don’t know how it feels to be hated.&#8221;</em> Though the school was aware of the bullying and issued a warning to his tormentors, it seemed to do no good. Nothing stopped.  Kenneth&#8217;s mother says the school never contacted her about the problem.  Now she is contemplating bringing legal action against the students she feels drove her son to suicide.</p>
<p>The towns of Paullina and Primghar, approximately 50 miles from Sioux City, are having to come to grips with the ugliness of homophobia and hate crime, issues these communities of largely German Lutheran ancestry never thought they would have to face. Counselors have been working with Kenneth&#8217;s schoolmates who are devastated by the suicide of their friend.  Many saw him as a loving, loyal friend, and cannot understand how hateful other students have been.  His friends have created a tribute video to express their love and grief at his passing. According to <a title="Channel 4 News story on the investigation of Kenneth Weishuhn's death." href="http://www.ktiv.com/story/17465803/officials-investigate-teens-suicide">Channel 4 News</a>, authorities are investigating both the in-school and online bullying that targeted Kenneth for being gay.</p>
<p>Kayla says that she has lost her best friend, the only person she could completely trust. Hatred built to a point of no return, she believes. <em>&#8220;Things get started, and then they get out of hand,&#8221;</em> she told interviewers for Channel 4. <em>&#8220;Then they go too far, and you can&#8217;t stop it.  He is gone now, and he is not coming back.&#8221;  </em>Kenneth&#8217;s funeral was conducted on Thursday at Grace Lutheran Church in Primghar.</p>
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		<title>Soulforce Founders Leaving Virginia; Say It&#8217;s No Longer Safe for Gays &#8212; A Special Comment</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lynchburg, Virginia &#8211; In a wakeup call to gays and their allies, Mel White and Gary Nixon, co-founders of LGBTQ advocacy group Soulforce, are leaving their home in Virginia for California&#8211;because they believe the Old Dominion is not safe for LGBTQ people any longer.  Rev. Dr. White writes today in the News and Advance: &#8220;With a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=27267&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/melgary2.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-27270" title="melgary2" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/melgary2.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="329" /></a>Lynchburg, Virginia &#8211; In a wakeup call to gays and their allies, Mel White and Gary Nixon, co-founders of LGBTQ advocacy group Soulforce, are leaving their home in Virginia for California&#8211;because they believe the Old Dominion is not safe for LGBTQ people any longer.  Rev. Dr. White writes today in the <a title="Mel White's farewell to Lynchburg, VA, published in the News and Advance." href="http://www2.newsadvance.com/news/2012/apr/15/community-viewpoint-sweet-sorrow-parting-ar-1840742/">News and Advance</a>: <em>&#8220;With a great deal of sadness and a real sense of failure, Gary and I are leaving this beautiful city and the wonderful new friends we’ve made here. We thought that in 10 years our witness would have helped in some small way to change Virginia for the better.&#8221;</em> In fact, Dr. White goes on to say, it has gotten dangerously worse. <em> &#8221;During our 10 years in Virginia,&#8221;</em> he writes,<em> &#8220;we’ve watched this great state turn against its gay and lesbian residents. Not only are we denied the rights and protections of marriage, our relationships are no longer safe here even when “protected” by wills or powers of attorney.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Dr. White and his partner of 30 years, Gary Nixon, embody the heart and soul of advocacy for LGBTQ people in America.  After ghostwriting Jerry Falwell&#8217;s life story, Dr. White had to acknowledge the extremist homophobia generated by the so-called Moral Majority and the rest of the Religious Right Wing&#8211;coming out to the world as a gay man and ordained minister.  He and Gary established and led <a title="Soulforce website." href="http://www.soulforce.org/about/">Soulforce</a> to provide a voice countering religion-based bigotry throughout America&#8217;s faith communities&#8211;one based on the non-violent principles of Gandhi and King.  Their advocacy against hate crimes of violence against the LGBTQ community has been legendary, inspiring many gays and lesbians to resist the damnation cynical religious leaders wished on them.</p>
<p>But now this courageous, generous couple have seen things in Virginia cross the line for queer folk. As Dr. White goes on to say in the News and Advance, the long slide toward bigotry took off in 2006 when the citizens of Virginia gave in to hate and wrote anti-gay discrimination into the Virginia state constitution.  <em>&#8220;Of all the states with constitutional amendments prohibiting marriage equality,&#8221;</em> he writes, <em>&#8220;Virginia became the most strident and mean-spirited.&#8221;</em>  Most recently, legislation banning adoption of children by gay and lesbian couples in the Old Dominion passed into law: <em>&#8220;When the General Assembly denies lesbians and gays the right to adopt or provide foster care, they are implying that we aren’t capable of being loving and trustworthy parents and even worse that we are a threat to children.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Hundreds of friends and well-wishers have visited White and Nixon&#8217;s home to show their love, appreciation, and support of the work for justice they have done, as <a title="Neighbors and friends visit Mel White and Gary Nixon for farewell party in Lynchburg, according to WSET Channel 13." href="http://www.wset.com/story/17456557/famous-ghostwriter-author-is-leaving-lynchburg">WSET-TV Channel 13</a> reported.  Ever gracious, Dr. White said to the gathering, <em>&#8220;We&#8217;re starting a new chapter of our lives, we don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s gonna happen next, but we&#8217;re gonna be close to the family, we&#8217;re gonna be in our favorite church, All Saint&#8217;s Episcopal, we&#8217;re gonna be by my favorite beach, so we&#8217;re gonna let God do the rest.&#8221;</em> He and Gary look forward to a new day in Virginia and the nation, when freedom and equality for LGBTQ people can flourish in safety.</p>
<p>Many LGBTQ people leave advocacy to people like Mel White and Gary Nixon.  Many live in a bubble of false security.  They persist to believe that if some must die or suffer violence and discrimination, it will always befall &#8220;the other guy,&#8221; and not them.  Straight allies of the queer community commit the same error, living in a fantasy that President Obama will surely be re-elected, and radical extremists who are besieging women, racial/ethnic minorities and immigrants will leave the LGBTQ population alone.  Nothing could be further from the truth, as White and Nixon&#8217;s decision to move back to California fairly shouts out to anyone who will listen.</p>
<p>We at the Unfinished Lives Project wish Mel and Gary well as they go on to the next chapter in their lives.  No couple deserves more appreciation for standing tall against anti-gay violence.  We can only hope they will find a safer, better place in the Golden State.  But to the hundreds of thousands of LGBTQ people who continue to live in Virginia, and to any queer person in a so-called &#8220;Red&#8221; state (like us in Texas), or in any &#8220;Purple&#8221; swing state, we say that the job of advocating for non-violence, justice and equality is now yours to do. <strong> No more fantasies of safety.  No more passing the buck.  As White and Nixon warn us, we could lose everything in this political and spiritual climate if we do not step up and join the struggle for ourselves.  ~ </strong>Rev. Dr. Stephen V. Sprinkle, founder of the Unfinished Lives Project <em><br />
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		<title>Two Women Plead Guilty to Gay Bashing and Kidnapping in Kentucky</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lexington, Kentucky &#8211; Two teenaged women pled guilty on Wednesday as accomplices in the kidnapping and assault of a gay man in Harlan, Kentucky. The women are the first persons convicted under the provisions of the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, signed into law by President Barack Obama in October [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=27058&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_27066" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 460px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/alexis-jenkins-and-mable-jenkins.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-27066" title="Alexis Jenkins and Mable Jenkins" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/alexis-jenkins-and-mable-jenkins.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="172" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Alexis Jenkins and (Mable) Ashley Jenkins, both 19, convicted of anti-gay hate crime in Eastern Kentucky</p></div>
<p>Lexington, Kentucky &#8211; Two teenaged women pled guilty on Wednesday as accomplices in the kidnapping and assault of a gay man in Harlan, Kentucky. The women are the first persons convicted under the provisions of the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, signed into law by President Barack Obama in October 2009.  The U.S. Attorney&#8217;s Office for the Eastern District of Kentucky announced that Alexis LeAnn Jenkins and Mable Ashley Jenkins, both 19 years old, entered guilty pleas to assisting a pair of cousins, Anthony Ray Jenkins and David Jason Jenkins, in a brutal assault and attempted murder against Kevin Pennington, an openly gay man whom the quartet abducted to Kingdom Come State Park on April 4, 2011.  The women&#8217;s pleas were sealed for another two days, according to <a title="LGBTQ Nation story on the pleas of two women for the bashing of a gay man in Eastern Kentucky in April 2011." href="http://www.lgbtqnation.com/2012/04/two-kentucky-women-plead-guilty-in-hate-crime-against-gay-man/">LGBTQ Nation</a>.  If they are found guilty of the charges, and no plea bargain agreement is in play, the women could face life sentences. It may be that they agreed to cooperate with federal authorities in order to receive lesser sentences, which will be handed down against them in August as the court schedule now stands. Alexis Jenkins is the spouse of Anthony Jenkins, and (Mable) Ashley Jenkins is his sister and a cousin of (David) Jason Jenkins.</p>
<p>The announcement of the guilty pleas come a day after a federal grand jury indicted Anthony and Jason Jenkins of kidnapping, conspiracy, and carrying out a deadly attack on Pennington because of his sexual orientation. The cousins have entered not guilty pleas to all charges, and will have their day in court on June 18.</p>
<p>In a statement issued Friday by the U.S. Attorney&#8217;s Office, the roles played by Alexis and Ashley Jenkins in the near-deadly attack on Pennington became clearer:  <em>“The women admitted they lured [Kevin] Pennington into a truck with two other defendants, Anthony Ray Jenkins and David Jason Jenkins. The truck was driven to an Eastern Kentucky state park where Pennington was allegedly assaulted by the male defendants,”</em> the statement says.<em> “Both women waived their right to be indicted and pleaded guilty to the charges brought by U.S. Attorney [Kerry B.] Harvey and the Department of Justice’s Civil Rights Division.”</em></p>
<p>Though the Jenkins cousins recruited the women to entice Pennington into their Silverado pickup, Alexis and Mable were equally as intent on the gay man&#8217;s murder as were the men, according to the details of the federal indictment filed against Anthony and Jason. <a title="Kentucky.com report on guilty pleas by two women for aiding and abetting the kidnapping and attempted murder of a gay man in Eastern KY." href="http://www.kentucky.com/2012/04/13/2149661/two-kentucky-teens-plead-guilty.html">Kentucky.com</a> reports that the women allegedly cheered on the Jenkins men as they beat Pennington senseless, yelling <em>&#8220;Kill the faggot!&#8221;</em> Pennington, who is 28, suffered injuries to his chest, head, face, and neck.  Had he not escaped his attackers, he has no doubt he would have been killed. Prosecutors indicate that the savagery of the gay bashing is not what qualified it as a federal hate crimes case.  Instead, the fact that the defendants transported the victim in their vehicle on a federal roadway allowed the FBI and the U.S. Attorney&#8217;s Office to become involved in the investigation and prosecution of the crime.  The Kentucky Equality Federation appealed to the U.S. Justice Department to intervene in the case, since local judges and other law enforcement officers were reluctant to carry the investigation forward in an effective way.</p>
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		<title>Two Kentucky Men Charged By Feds With Anti-Gay Hate Crime: First Use of U.S. Hate Crimes Law</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lexington, Kentucky &#8211; Two cousins face the first charges filed by the Federal Government under the Matthew Shepard/James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act for attacking a gay man, as announced by the U.S. Attorney&#8217;s Office in Lexington.  According to the Associated Press, David Jason Jenkins, 37, of Cumberland, Kentucky, and Anthony Ray Jenkins, 20, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=26947&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Lexington, Kentucky &#8211; Two cousins face the first charges filed by the Federal Government under the Matthew Shepard/James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act for attacking a gay man, as announced by the U.S. Attorney&#8217;s Office in Lexington.  According to the <a title="Associated Press story on Federal charges against cousins for anti-gay attack in Kentucky." href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5h4w3yh8VpiL3AogJbrGJk0IAJfTw?docId=720f2f1e9477474ebd433b198c03948a">Associated Press</a>, David Jason Jenkins, 37, of Cumberland, Kentucky, and Anthony Ray Jenkins, 20, of Partridge, Kentucky were indicted early this week by a federal grand jury for a savage April 2011 attack upon Kevin Pennington, a gay man who refused to perform sexual acts upon the cousins.  The Jenkins cousins were also indicted on federal kidnapping, assault, and conspiracy charges. Both men pleaded not guilty to the charges. If convicted, each defendant could face a life sentence in prison.</p>
<p><a title="CNN story on federal indictment against two Kentucky cousins for assaulting a gay man." href="http://www.cnn.com/2012/04/12/justice/kentucky-gay-hate-crime-case/">CNN</a> quotes the indictment as saying that the cousins enlisted two women to entice Pennington to get into their pickup truck on April 4, 2011 for a trip into the pristine wilderness of the Kingdom Come State Park in Harlan. <em> &#8221;David Jason Jenkins and Anthony Ray Jenkins made a plan to assault Pennington because of his sexual orientation,&#8221;</em> the indictment reads. The men wore clothing that made it difficult to see who they were, and disabled the dome light inside the pickup to further obscure their identities.  The FBI affadavit says that when David Jason Jenkins demanded Pennington service him sexually, Pennington refused. Jenkins threatened to rape him. The cousins stopped the truck, dragged Pennington out of the cab, and brutally assaulted him while shouting, <em>&#8220;How do you like this, Faggot?&#8221;</em>  Pennington reported to human rights advocates, <em>&#8220;The whole time I screamed and begged them to stop, I was screaming I&#8217;m sorry for whatever I had done to make them want to do this to me. I can remember seeing bright flashes of light every time one of them would stomp or punch me in the head with them telling me he was going to rape me asking me if I was going to suck his [edited] how they would hold me down if they had to and how he was going to [edited] me in the [edited] dry until I bled.&#8221; </em>Knocked unconscious, he lay on the forest floor. He awoke and managed to escape while his assailants were debating how best to dispose of his body. Pennington ran to a ranger station, broke a window to gain access to phone, and called police. He suffered multiple injuries, including wounds to his neck, head, back, and face. After treatment, Pennington was released from hospital care, but says he still struggles emotionally with the effects of the attack. Though the two women, Alexis Leann Combs Jenkins and Mable Ashley Jenkins, have been charged with kidnapping and aiding a kidnapping according to the authorities, <a title="EDGEon the net report on charges against two women in Kentucky assault and kidnapping of a gay man in April 2011." href="http://www.edgeonthenet.com/news/crime/news//131968/2_face_federal_hate_crime_charge_in_ky_gay_attack_">Edgeonthenet</a> says they have not been indicted by the federal grand jury.</p>
<p>This case is a landmark use of the Shepard/Byrd Act to prosecute an anti-gay hate crime in the nation, and interest around the nation is running high. Since the cousins used a truck and drove their victim on a federal roadway, the case fell under federal jurisdiction.  A U.S. Department of Justice statement read, in part, <em>&#8220;The indictment marks the first federal case in the nation charging a violation of the sexual orientation section of the Federal Hate Crimes Law.&#8221;</em> Human Rights Campaign&#8217;s Michael Cole-Schwartz, who worked for the passage of the Shepard/Byrd Act, said, <em>&#8220;It’s vindicating to see that the years of hard work that went into making sure this law was on the books is now being put into place.&#8221;</em> Kentucky Equality Federation president, Jordan Palmer, commented on the larger context of the case. <em>&#8220;The bigger picture here is that the U.S. attorney’s office is sending a message that you don’t try to hurt someone and you don’t injure them because of their sexual orientation or gender identity,&#8221;</em> he said. <a title="Kentucky Equality Federation website." href="http://www.kyequality.org/">The Kentucky Equality Federation</a> vigorously lobbied the U.S. Department of Justice to become involved in the case.</p>
<p>As a defense, the cousins claim that Pennington had approached them for illicit drugs, and the deal went bad, a common attempt on the part of perpetrators of hate crimes to deflect attention away from the heinous nature of their acts, and to defame the victim. The Jenkins cousins will face their day in court on June 18.</p>
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		<title>Gay Bashing Targets Two North Carolina Women</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Boone, North Carolina &#8211; Two women perceived to be lesbians were targeted by anti-gay violence at a fast food restaurant in Boone, North Carolina.  Sarabeth Nordstrom and Erin Johnston, a junior exercise science major at Appalachian State University, were verbally harassed with anti-lesbian slurs at the restaurant on February 11 by two females and a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=25751&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Boone, North Carolina &#8211; Two women perceived to be lesbians were targeted by anti-gay violence at a fast food restaurant in Boone, North Carolina.  Sarabeth Nordstrom and Erin Johnston, a junior exercise science major at Appalachian State University, were verbally harassed with anti-lesbian slurs at the restaurant on February 11 by two females and a male, according to <a title="QNotes story on anti-lesbian assault on two women in Boone, NC." href="http://goqnotes.com/14764/hate-crimes-additions-requested/">Q Notes</a>.  When Nordstrom and Johnston left for home, the lone male and one of the female harassers followed them.  According to Equality North Carolina, the male initiated the attack upon the women at approximately 2:30 a.m. in the parking lot of the apartment complex where the victims lived.  Nordstrom was struck in the face repeatedly, sustaining a broken nose, eye socket, and cheekbone.  Johnston was knocked to the ground when she tried to call 911 for help, and stomped again and again. Her ribs were broken, her meniscus was torn, and she suffered wounds to her mouth and her nasal cartilage.  They were treated at Watauga Medical Center and released.</p>
<p>The victims said they had never met their assailants prior to the incident.  The alleged main attacker, Ketoine Jamahl  Mitchell, 19, turned himself into Boone Police, and was charged with two counts of assault on a woman, one count of assault inflicting serious injury, and one count of assault with a deadly weapon.  Brooklyn Lacrossa Canter, 18, was arrested in early March, and charged with aiding and abetting the assault.  Mitchell, who has a larceny record in Caldwell County, is being held in the Watauga Detention Center on a $6,000 secure bond, according to <a title="Appalachian Online report on assault on two women perceived to be lesbian in b" href="http://www.theappalachianonline.com/community/8575-arrest-made-in-assault-investigation">The Appalachian Online</a>. Authorities have set April 17 for the first court appearance of Mitchell and Canter.</p>
<p>As <a title="Equality NC story on assault on two Boone women perceived to be gay." href="http://equalitync.org/news1/anti-gay-assault-in-boone-shows-need-for-expanded-hate-crime-protections">Equality North Carolina</a> points out, there is no hate crimes protection for lesbians, gay men, bisexual people, and transgender people in the state law codes.  Since this savage attack, ENC has agitated for the passage of the Safer Communities Act by the NC State Legislature, which specifies LGBT people as a protected class from physical harm.  Since anti-gay slurs were shouted by the assailants at the victims during the harassment and attack, by definition this was a hate crime&#8211;one law enforcement authorities in North Carolina are not yet equipped to acknowledge or combat.</p>
<p>The Appalachian State community has rallied to the support of the victims.  On March 2, a University Forum addressed the question of violence against gay people and women, and on March 5 a benefit was held to give the women a hand with their expenses since the attack.  A petition to Governor Bev Perdue and the state legislature to amend the NC hate crimes statutes is collecting signatures on Change.org, and <a title="Change.org petition to amend NC hate crimes law to include LGBT people." href="http://www.change.org/petitions/amend-nc-hate-crime-laws">can be accessed here</a>.  A <a title="Facebook page calling for support for amending NC's hate crimes law to include LGBT people." href="http://www.facebook.com/events/328904423812343/">Facebook</a> page has been created in support of the petition.</p>
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		<title>Texas Grandmother Attacks Gay Man With Her Cane; Arrested for Hate Crime</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Richland Hills, Texas &#8211; A 71-year-old grandmother allegedly beat and choked a gay man with her cane, calling him a &#8220;faggot&#8221; and falsely accusing him of having AIDS.  Wanda Derby of Richland Hills, a suburb of Fort Worth, unleashed her homophobic attack on Wednesday night against a 25-year-old  gay man her son moved in with [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=25599&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_25601" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 490px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/wanda-derby.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-25601" title="Wanda Derby" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/wanda-derby.jpg" alt="" width="480" height="600" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Alleged gay basher, cane-wielding Wanda Derby, 71, arrested for brutally beating a gay man in Richland Hills, Texas while calling him homophobic slurs (Richland Hills PD photo).</p></div>
<p>Richland Hills, Texas &#8211; A 71-year-old grandmother allegedly beat and choked a gay man with her cane, calling him a &#8220;faggot&#8221; and falsely accusing him of having AIDS.  Wanda Derby of Richland Hills, a suburb of Fort Worth, unleashed her homophobic attack on Wednesday night against a 25-year-old  gay man her son moved in with last week, according to <a title="MSNBC story on N. Texas Grandmother who bashed a gay man with her cane in Richland Hills, Texas." href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/46897377#.T3Vdce24JFI">NBCDFW.com</a>.  Derby and her son had been <em>&#8220;having issues&#8221;</em> for several days, and her son decided to move in with the man and his family who also live in the neighborhood.  Tensions had been mounting for weeks, according to the victim.  Derby allegedly posted several times on Facebook that her son&#8217;s friend had AIDS and was going to die from it.  The victim of the attack says he had to reassure his friends the accusation was not true, and that he was disease free.</p>
<p>The victim, who preferred to be unidentified in two news sources but is openly named in a third, says the Wednesday night attack was unprovoked. Derby, he said, struck him with her wooden cane, choked him with the crook of the cane, and then attacked other family members, including the victim&#8217;s mother, whom she allegedly slapped in the face.  Derby repeatedly yelled homophobic slurs as she carried on the attack. <em>&#8220;I was very offended,&#8221;</em> the victim said to MSNBC. <em>&#8220;You just don&#8217;t go around calling people names because. It&#8217;s just not normal.&#8221;  </em>he continued, <em>&#8220;We finally got the cane and got it away from her and threw it on the ground. And then that&#8217;s when I ran around and got inside the house. And then we started trying to shut the door. And she was like, full force, coming.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>Detective Tye Bell of the Richland Hills Police told the <a title="Dallas Voice story on grandmother's attack on gay man Wednesday night in Richland Hills." href="http://www.dallasvoice.com/richland-hills-woman-71-arrested-beating-man-25-believed-gay-hiv-positive-10105584.html">Dallas Voice </a>that the victim suffered multiple bruises on his torso and marks on his neck from the cane.  He was treated by the Richland Hills Police on the scene.  <em>&#8220;[Derby's] statements were very biased toward sexual preference and that gave us the probable cause to file that as a hate crime,”</em> Bell said to Voice reporters.  Derby was arrested Wednesday and charged with aggravated assault with a deadly weapon that may be enhanced due to a hate crimes charge.  Without the hate crimes enhancement, Derby could serve a maximum of 20 years in prison, if found guilty.  With the hate crimes enhancement, she could face a life sentence.  After posting $11,500 bail, she was released on Thursday afternoon from the Richland Hills jail.</p>
<p><a title="Fort Worth Star-Telegram story on grandmother's attack against a gay man in Richland Hills, Texas." href="http://www.star-telegram.com/2012/03/29/3846525/richland-hills-woman-71-accused.html">The Fort Worth Star-Telegram</a> reports that just hours before the gay bashing, Derby wrote on her Facebook page: <em>&#8220;My son Steven is no longer my son. He has sided with the idiots next door and I guess he [thinks] they will take care of him. He will never get another thing from me or his dad. We have washed our hands of him.&#8221;</em>  Derby was a longtime financial officer of the Mental Health Mental Retardation Association of Tarrant County, and worked for two years at the American Red Cross of Greater Dallas, according to her posts on Facebook.</p>
<p>The victim of Derby&#8217;s hate crime, who is an actor, says she deserves to be taught a lesson, and he hopes she receives the full penalty of the law.  He went on to tell the Dallas Voice that he was proud of being gay. <em>“She’s not going to make me feel bad for who I am,”</em> he said. <em>“I’m not changing my lifestyle because someone feels I am a disgrace.”</em></p>
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		<title>Gay Washington Teen Dies in Response to Cyber- and School Bullying</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 05:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cashmere, Washington &#8211; New light is being shed on the bullycide of a 14-year-old gay boy, victimized online and in school because of his sexual orientation.  Rafael Morelos, a student at Cashmere Middle School, hanged himself  from an irrigation bridge not far from his home on January 29, a cold Sunday in central Washington state. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=25488&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_25510" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 320px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/rafael-morelos.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-25510" title="Rafael Morelos" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/rafael-morelos.jpg" alt="" width="310" height="372" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Rafael &quot;Rafa&quot; Morelos, 14-year-old openly gay middle school student took his own life because of incessant bullying.</p></div>
<p>Cashmere, Washington &#8211; New light is being shed on the bullycide of a 14-year-old gay boy, victimized online and in school because of his sexual orientation.  Rafael Morelos, a student at Cashmere Middle School, hanged himself  from an irrigation bridge not far from his home on January 29, a cold Sunday in central Washington state.  His older brother found his lifeless body.  The small agricultural community of 3,060 east of Seattle continues to be in mourning because of his loss.  It is another community that believed anti-gay bullying just didn&#8217;t happen among people of stolid, conservative values like them.  Rafael&#8217;s suicide has dispelled that illusion.</p>
<p>By all accounts, Rafael was a boy who was easy to like.  He had been out and open about his homosexuality, and had overcome depressive bouts that had caused him to cut himself.  But conservative attitudes, especially among school counselors, made it difficult for Rafa (as his friends called him) and other gay students to find a professional they could trust.</p>
<p>School and town officials still do not want to say that anti-gay bullying played a major role in Rafael&#8217;s death.  But scores of his classmates told his mother that the bullying was incessant.  <a title="Huffington Post story on the suicide of Rafael Morelos in Cashmere, Washington." href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/06/rafael-morelos-gay-washington-suicide_n_1258471.html">Huffington Post</a> reports that the school locker room was a place of painful conflict for Rafael.  Quoting the <em>Wentachee World</em>, Huffpo highlights a couple of witnesses to some of the worst incidents of harassment and physical violence. One friend said, <em>&#8220;He told me he got shoved and punched in the face in P.E. in the locker room at Cashmere.&#8221;</em>  Another added, <em>&#8220;He was tired of people saying that his little brothers would follow in his footsteps and be gay, too.&#8221;  </em>Another friend said that the harassment extended to the internet.  A bully set up a Facebook page just so she could taunt Rafael online for being gay.  His mother Malinda Morelos told <a title="Q13 Fox News report on candlelight vigil for Rafael Morelos, gay teen committing suicide in Washington state." href="http://www.q13fox.com/news/kcpq-candlelight-memorial-held-for-bullied-teen-who-committed-suicide-20120203,0,661533.story">Q13 Fox News</a> that she knew he was not acting as if he felt up to par, but she had no idea that he was being bullied for being gay at school.  After a candlelight vigil attended by over 100 youth and others, she said, <em>“He never told me nothing. He did not tell me he was being bullied. He had a dark side inside him that he never told me his feelings anymore. I thought it was just him being a teenager, and I just didn’t know why.”</em></p>
<p><a title="Seattle Times report on events in the wake of the suicide of Washington state gay teen, Rafael Morelos." href="http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2017840595_suicide26m.html?syndication=rss">The Seattle Times</a> says a person from a nearby town collected over 750 signatures for a Change.org petition calling upon Cashmere school officials to enforce their zero tolerance policy on anti-gay bullying.  LGBTQ advocates from around the nation are pressing local and state officials for action to prevent other senseless bullycides. On April 7, the Seattle Men&#8217;s Chorus, known for its many gay members, will give a benefit concert in Rafael&#8217;s memory.  The concert will be preceded by a program on diversity and tolerance.  Cashmere Schools Superintendent Glenn Johnson told the Times: <em>&#8220;The bottom line is we lost a kid — and that&#8217;s of concern no matter what the reason is. The reality is that we take that very seriously and we want to get better as a community,&#8221;</em> Superintendent Johnson continued. <em>&#8220;We need to learn and heal together.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>His mother is left with her memories and a journal retrieved from his school locker where he spoke lovingly about his friends and a special person in his life.  On his iPod, Rafa left a short, poignant goodbye shortly before he died: <em>&#8220;Sawwy, guys, but I love you guys.”</em>  As his mother said to mourners at the candlelight vigil in memory of her dear son, <em>&#8220;Sometimes he acted strong but, inside, he was dying little by little.”</em></p>
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		<title>Gay Man Shot at DC IHOP; Female Suspect Arrested for Possible Hate Crime</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 05:14:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Columbia Heights, District of Columbia &#8211; Metro Police announced Monday that a woman has been arrested for the shooting of a gay man in a local IHOP restaurant.  DC Police Chief Cathy L. Lanier and DC Mayor Vincent Gray told reporters that LaShawn Carson, 27, resident of the District, has been arrested for the March [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=25383&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_25386" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/ihop-columbia-heights.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-25386" title="IHOP Columbia Heights" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/ihop-columbia-heights.jpg?w=300&h=199" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">24-hr. IHOP Restaurant in Columbia Heights where a gay man was gunned down in a possible hate crime March 11.</p></div>
<p>Columbia Heights, District of Columbia &#8211; Metro Police announced Monday that a woman has been arrested for the shooting of a gay man in a local IHOP restaurant.  DC Police Chief Cathy L. Lanier and DC Mayor Vincent Gray told reporters that LaShawn Carson, 27, resident of the District, has been arrested for the March 11 shooting in what is being called an anti-gay hate crime.  <a title="Washington Times report on arrest of LaShawn Carson for the shooting of a gay man on March 11 at a Columbia Heights IHOP in DC." href="http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2012/mar/26/woman-arrested-in-suspected-hate-shooting/">The Washington Times</a> reports that investigating officers say anti-gay epithets were used by the suspect during the attack, leading police to investigate the shooting as a possible hate crime.  Two groups of customers engaged in a disturbance at approximately 6:30 a.m. on the 11th at the Columbia Heights IHOP leading to blows being exchanged and water glasses being thrown.  Carson was hit in the face in the altercation, backed away, and then opened fire inside the restaurant, yelling epithets at her victim, according to <a title="CBS DC report on arrest of LaShawn Carson for the shooting of a gay man at local IHOP restaurant." href="http://washington.cbslocal.com/2012/03/26/police-make-arrest-in-anti-gay-hate-crime-shooting-at-ihop/">CBS DC</a>.   The victim survived, but still has a bullet lodged in his liver.</p>
<p>DC Council Member for District 1, Democrat Jim Blair, commenting on Carson&#8217;s arrest, said, <em>“What a relief this is. This was a horrendous hate crime that singled someone out on the perception they were part of a particular group.”</em>  The suspect was arraigned on Monday, and will have a preliminary hearing on Thursday. Until authorities can determine if they wish to charge Carson with a hate crime, she is being held without bond.  At present, she has been charged with aggravated assault while armed.   A surveillance video confirmed who fired the shot.  Other persons have been identified in the video, but at no one else has been arrested in connection with the possible hate shooting.  Officials are assuring the public that this incident has no relationship with the rash of physical violence against DC gays, lesbians, and transgender persons.</p>
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		<title>Gay Ohio Teen in Coma After Post-Bullying Suicide Attempt</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Mar 2012 02:25:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wellsville, Ohio &#8211; An openly gay 15-year-old is struggling for his life in a coma after high school bullying drove him to attempt suicide.  The Advocate reports that Austin Rodriguez, student at Wellsville High School, collapsed on the kitchen floor in front of his mother after swallowing over 100 pills because he faced concentrated ridicule [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=unfinishedlivesblog.com&#038;blog=4107552&#038;post=25176&#038;subd=unfinishedlives&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_25180" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 400px"><a href="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/austinrodriguez.gif"><img class="size-full wp-image-25180" title="AustinRodriguez" src="http://unfinishedlives.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/austinrodriguez.gif" alt="" width="390" height="285" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Austin Rodriguez, 15, overdosed on prescription pills because of incessant bullying due to his sexual orientation.</p></div>
<p>Wellsville, Ohio &#8211; An openly gay 15-year-old is struggling for his life in a coma after high school bullying drove him to attempt suicide.  <a title="Advocate report on attempted suicide of 15-year-old Wellsville gay teen because of school bullying." href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2012/03/23/Son_Suicide_Attempt_Has_Mother_Calling_on_School_to_Do_More/">The Advocate</a> reports that Austin Rodriguez, student at Wellsville High School, collapsed on the kitchen floor in front of his mother after swallowing over 100 pills because he faced concentrated ridicule and harassment for being gay.  According to <a title="WFMJ TV report on attempted suicide of Austin Rodriguez, Wellsviile gay student." href="http://www.wfmj.com/story/17234194/wellsville-mother-speak-out-against-bullying-after-son-tried-to-take-his-own-life">WFMJ TV</a>, Rodriguez seemed lethargic to his mother last Friday evening, and then fell at her feet to the kitchen floor from taking a massive overdose of his own prescription drug.  She rushed him to a local hospital for treatment, where doctors then helicoptered him to Akron Children&#8217;s Hospital where he remains in a medically induced coma to protect his life.  Because of the extent of the damage to his lungs from the overdose, Rodriguez is in critical condition, but his doctors are guardedly optimistic that he will recover.</p>
<p>His mother is appealing to the Wellsville High School administration and to other schools in the Ohio Valley to change its policies toward LGBT students like her son.  In an interview for WFMJ, Bonnie Rodriguez said she had no idea her introverted, quiet son was being bullied to the degree he was until school friends came forward <em>&#8220;out of the woodwork&#8221;</em> to tell her stories of fear and pain after Austin was hospitalized. In the last eight months Austin had come out to her, and she said she shares a loving, <em>&#8220;honest&#8221;</em> relationship with her son.  <em>&#8220;I actually didn&#8217;t know how bad it was for him in school until he actually did this,&#8221;</em> Mrs. Rodriguez said. <em>&#8220;And until friends came out of the woodwork saying we knew Austin was going through this, we thought he was handling it a lot better. We didn&#8217;t know what to do.&#8221;</em>  Mrs. Rodriguez went on to say that Austin was happy and relieved at first because coming out to her had gone so well, but later he fell into a depression she was unable to get to the bottom of.  Now she knows the bullying at school was behind much of her son&#8217;s desperation, and he was unwilling to talk about it because he didn&#8217;t want to seem weak.</p>
<p>Schoolmates harassed Austin cruelly, forcing an already introverted boy to feel like an outcast.  His mother told reporters the extent of the bullying her son had to endure: <em>&#8220;It was electronic, it was face to face bullying, they were hiding his gym clothes because they didn&#8217;t want him changing in the locker room with them,&#8221;</em> she said. <em>&#8220;They didn&#8217;t want him to eat by them, or in the school lunchroom.&#8221;</em>  Mrs. Rodriguez hopes that no other family has to undergo what hers has to face, and her calls for action are beginning to be heard.  <a title="WTRF TV report on Wellsville High School response to the suicide attempt of gay student, Austin Rodriguez." href="http://www.wtrf.com/story/17233372/wellsville-high-school-investigates-bullying-after-teen-attempts-suicide">WTRF TV</a> reports that the Wellsville High administration is investigating the situation that led Austin to attempt suicide.  There is no Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at Wellsville High, but administrators now say they are open to the establishment of one. Students say that Austin was bullied constantly because is came out as gay.  They also say that the school is not doing enough to address the problem of anti-gay bullying.  Principal Linda Rolley is fielding their complaints as the investigation proceeds.  Meanwhile, the next few days are crucial for Austin&#8217;s physical recovery.  The culture of harassment and violence that led to this hateful outcome, however, remains intact throughout schools in the Akron area.</p>
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